What a dummy - not as in stupid - but that thing that Lizzy seemed to have permanently stuck in her mouth at night. What a dummy it was - it was loved, cherished and craved, but now it is gone.
We tried many different tactics to get rid of the thing. First of all we tried cold turkey. That was hellish for us and Lizzy. After about 2 months of screaming for 2 plus hours every night, plus multiple night wakings and a cranky girl during the day, we relented and gave it back. (I think she might be a little
stubborn...don't you?) Then we tried bribing. (We'll have a goodbye dummy party if you sleep without your dummy). We tried having the dentist tell her it wasn't good for her.
Before coming to Australia, we had our best compromise, where we'd let her fall asleep with it but take it out after about an hour. But it still had to go.
When we came home from Australia, we decided it was time. We suggested that we leave the dummy out for the dummy fairy. The problem was the fairy kept on coming each night and putting it back in her mouth.
Finally, I wrote a book for Lizzy. It showed pictures of her as a baby, and then growing up. Each picture had her using her dummy. Then there was a picture of her going to preschool without a dummy, until finally there was a picture of her sleeping without her dummy (snapped during our compromise time).
At the end, I said to her "Do you want to be a big girl tonight, and go to sleep without your dummy".
"Yes" she replied. I had my doubts that it would be like the fairy but she fell asleep without a problem. We read the book for the next few nights, and each night she choose to sleep without the dummy. We've now been dummy free for over a week - so I'm confident it's gone for good.
Yippee! Hopefully we've just saved our selves thousands on orthodist bills later in life :)