It's been 3 years!

I know it's a cliche but the past 3 years have really flown by.   We really can't call Kai our baby anymore.    We had a birthday filled weekend - starting yesterday when we went on a train ride on an old restored train in Snoqualmie.    I'm pushing my memory here, but I think this was Kai's first real train ride.   Let's just say he was a little excited.

And today, we had presents and a little family party.    Monster Trucks was the chosen theme - although there was a moment of doubt when he declared yesterday that he wanted a Blue Shark party.    This was conveniently dealt with when we wandered into a candy shop and found blue shark candies.   He was indulged and satisfied.    He doesn't know it yet - but for preschool celebration I'm going to make sharks in a cup (ie candy sharks in jello translated into shark lollies in jelly).

We also decorated ginger bread men (aka monster truck drivers). The decorating was fun but not much eating was done by the kids. Ben & I liked them though.

And the remote control monster truck was a hit.   Later in the evening, he set up ramps and caused the truck to jump of the end.   We're not sure how long it will last, but it will definitely get it's moneys worth of play.

This was Kai's face when he realised how it worked!

And the other hit was the truck which came with a car on the flatbed.   We love this brand of trucks - they are USA made, from recycled plastic.   They're very sturdy and well constructed.   Plus Kai plays with them alot!     The car which goes with this truck had the unfortunate fate of acting as something for the remote control truck to crash into.    It really is a good thing that they are so well constructed!

Piano Lessons

Elizabeth learnt a new song today, and wanted her grandparents to listen. So sit back, relax and pretend she's giving her concert.

Adjectives

Kai loves his adjectives. He'll often say things like "Can I have a juicy apple or can I have cheesey eggs?". However the new one tonight was one that we could do without. "Mummy - I have to do a brown poo!"

Ahh - what a delight he is!

Articulated Buses

I had to look up the word for an "articulated" bus today. I've always called a bus with a pivoting joint a banana bus. We used to catch a banana bus to school, and that name has stuck with me.

This all came about when I pointed out the banana bus to Kai yesterday.

His response was to giggle and say "No Mummy, it's a people bus".

Of course! Silly Me. That bus doesn't carry banana's. It carries people.

Two is such a fun age.

Line of the Night

The best line said during dinner tonight.

Ben: "Kai - you're such a character"
Kai: "No! I'm not a carrot"

Which then, of course, led to all sorts of silliness.

Al Naturale

When someone has a minor ailment in our household, I tend to explore natural options before I look for strong chemical/medical options.

Hence, when Elizabeth told me that her head was itching and I discovered large clumps of dry skin through her hair - I looked for a natural remedy as our first step.

Last night, we tried a honey & banana scalp mask. It certainly smelt good when we put it on, and she wore it for 30 minutes.

What I did not realise was how hard it would be to get banana out of her hair! We rinsed, and rinsed and then rinsed some more. Then we brushed and rinsed even more. Finally, I decided to try drying her hair - hoping that banana wasn't going to get cooked onto her hair. Luckily, that seemed to do the trick. Once the banana and hair was dry, it was much easier to brush out.

The good news - her scalp is definately looking better today. Although, if we do a natural remedy for dry scalp again, I think we might try the yogurt instead.

Mimic

Kai is our little mimic. If you say a new word, it's often repeated back very quickly.

Tonight our conversation went like this:
"Mummy, get out bath. Go see Daddy".
"OK, you can go see Daddy?"
"Yeah! Go play Daddy."
"You're such a little chatterbox."
"Datterbox?"
"Yes - a Chatterbox"
"Ooooh" (as if that explained everything).

Most of the time it's cute. It's not so good when you suddenly say "Darn it!" and it's repeated by a little voice.

Weekend Away

We went camping this weekend to South Whidbey Island. It was a great weekend, spent with some friends.

We played on the beach



went to the Loganberry Festival...

and on Sunday went to a Jazz concert at the Rhododendrum Gardens, where Lizzy found evidence of fairies.

In all, it was a great weekend and one we'd like to repeat this summer.

Alarm Clock

I have a great alarm clock. Every morning, without fail, it says "Hello Mommy! Out! Come on Mommy! Out!"

And I stagger out of bed, make breakfast, put on Dora the Explorer and fall asleep on the couch again. But like all good alarm clocks, 20 minutes pass and I'm woken by my alarm clock again when he says "Mommy, Dora all done. TV again?".

Family Resemblence

I got a wonderful photo in the mail the other day, which is now up on my fridge so the kids can see their cousin every day. However, the photo reminded so strongly of another photo I have in my collection that I couldn't help digging through my old photos.

Home Made

I recently decided to pull out my sewing machine again. As soon as Elizabeth saw this, she put in a request for a dress. She chose the material and the pattern. This is the end result...

And from the side...



And just to throw in a smile for you..

New Rose

The other day I bought a new rose for my garden. It's called Enchanted Evening and it's a lovely lavender rose with a beautiful scent.

As planting flowers involves digging, Kai wanted to be involved in the process. And of course, Lizzy just wanted to be outside.



I love this time of year!

Boasting

We are growing strawberries. I planted them last year, and this year they have returned with no effort on my behalf. I told Elizabeth that I'd have to call Granddad and boast to him about my bumper crop of strawberries. She very seriously told me "It's not good to boast Mum". To which I replied that sometimes it was appropriate.

So Dad, I just need to let you know that I have the most awesome crop of strawberries, and I think you'd be jealous :)

To Bring A Smile To Your Face

Today Kai & I went to the farm, and I took these videos. I can't help but smile when I see them.

Our Artist

Lizzy is our creator in the family. If she's not making a craft, she's writing something. This was her "creation" from the weekend.

Maybe it's them and not me...

Maybe I'm not as blind as I thought. I decided to take a photo of me getting the right or wrong answer on my logic game and look what decided to show up under the light of the flash.




Below it is what I'm seeing on my screen. If you play the medium difficulty, you get two logic rules to follow, like you see in the first image. I think it's them! I've been trying to get this game out for days so it's quite a relief.

Are you any good with Logic games?

Obviously I am not because I cannot work this one out for the life of me. This game is called Magic Rule. You are supposed to look for the pattern and select the correct piece from the 3 options down the bottom. I cannot work out the magic rule for this set.

These are some examples of the ones I get correct. I have put a box around the correct answer. The first one, the column on the right is blue and the column on the left is red, so I choose the red number one. The second example, the numbers have been twisted on their sides.

In these examples, it's all about the peg placement.

And these ones are all about the color.


If you can work out the answer - please tell me how you worked it out!

A Tissue

Kai has a cold and is feeling a little miserable. He comes up to me in his sad voice and says "A did-doo, a did-doo". I think he's practicing for having a man cold in years to come, as you would think that the need for a tissue was heartbreaking.

My Helper

After my shower this morning, I grabbed some clothes from my basket of clean clothes. I was about to start getting dressed when Kai walked over with a handful of folded clothes. "Away", he says and hands me the clothes. I put them away and go to get my undies out of the draw when Kai reappears. "Away".

Let's just say I got all my folded laundry away, while wearing only a towel. Isn't he so helpful.

Just a Spoonful of Sugar

Kai has been on antibiotics for the past week. He is not happy about this fact, however we have come to a compromise. After taking his medicine he gets a small chocolate easter egg. So now, twice a day, I say "Kai, it's time for your medicine" and he says "Treat?". And then he starts crying as he walks over to me, crys even more as he takes his medicine and then smiles and says "treat" again.

Ben has accused me of trying to give Kai an aversion to chocolate because he associates it with medicine. I can live with that.

A Collection of Poems

Lizzy just recently finished a segment on poetry at school. For giggles, here are some of her works.

Dad will always be cool

I was talking with the kid yesterday and the topic of being teenagers came up. I said "Perhaps when you are 14, you won't want to come with Mum because teenagers quite often don't think parents are cool."

Isaac responded "I think Dad will always be cool because he plays computer games."

So I now record this statement for posterity's sake.

Messages

Last night I found a message on my toothbrush. Lizzy had stuck a sticker on my toothbrush which read "I love you Mom". She had also left her sticker book in the bathroom, so I wrote on one of her stickers "I love you Elizabeth".

Tonight, as I was cleaning my teeth, I noticed two new messages had appeared, this time on my makeup bottles. My sticker I had written to her was now on her toothbrush.

So naturally I had to write another couple of messages tonight. I wonder which odd spot I'll find a message tomorrow.

My helper

Kai loves to help around the house. He's actually quite an organized little fellow, and will say "Way" when he wants to put his toys away. I've got to admit that it's rather nice to have a child who likes to tidy up.

On a number of occassions lately, I've gone to take out something of the kid's cup/plate cupboard, only to find that Kai has unloaded the dishwasher for me. While that is terribly sweet of him, there is a problem. They haven't been washed yet! Ah well - it is the thought that counts, isn't it?

Why Math Homework Frustrates Me

Some afternoons I feel like ripping my hair out. The reason is simple - Isaac is doing his math homework. I would say that 99% of the time Isaac knows the answer. The problem is that he is required to explain how he got that answer and that is where the problems start.

This is todays homework.

As you can probably see, he knew the answer was 24. In his head he worked out that there were 6 blocks of 10 minutes in a hour and therefore over 4 hours, there would be 24, 10 minute blocks. (6x4=24).

So when he writes down the explanation, there is one shell picked up every 10 minutes (1) and this is done 24 times. His explanation is therefore 1x24=24.

So another day passes where I tell him that he needs to write down all the steps, to show his teacher how he worked out the sum. This gets him all frustrated.

I have a sneaking suspicion that Maths is going to be easier the harder it gets.

Letters

Lizzy loves to write letters. Ben & I are always finding notes on our desks or in other places around the house. I hate to admit, but there are some unmailed letters in our house too.

Two letters have been written recently - and while they are still unmailed - I thought it was important that they made it to their intended recipients.

Christmas is on the Way

And in America this means making Gingerbread houses.

We made our first ever tonight.

Back to Halloween

Finally I have a photo of my little Bob the Builder.

School Photos Part II

And today, Isaac's photos came home. Here is our sweet 3rd grader :)

School Photos

Lizzy came home with her school photos today. Isaac did not, so you'll have to wait to see his.

Hugs

The other day Isaac asked what my favorite things was. My answer was "Saying goodnight to my children, because it's a very special time I get to spend with each of my children and I always am able to give them a big hug."

Isaac thought about this for a moment. "I like hugging equally to computers".

"I definately like hugging more than computers", I answered.

"Of course you do, you're a girl".

I held back from responding that this was obviously boy logic.

Halloween

Tonight was Halloween. Unfortunately I forgot my camera, however I have some photos from the kids Halloween parade and playing in the park afterwards.

We went trick or treating with my friend and her children, much to Isaac & Lizzy's delight. What amused me most was how quickly Kai caught onto the whole trick or treating tradition. He toddled after the big kids as quickly as he could, and would squeal in delight when someone opened the door. Often this was accompanied by a little happy dance. If the person bought the bowl down to his height, he'd quickly take a candy and pop it into his bag. If they were still down low when he'd done that the hand would go out again. Luckily for us, he's not had candy before so he didn't realise what a treasure he was putting into his bag.

Here are some photos of Isaac & Lizzy from the other day at school. Isaac was Obi wan Kenobi and Lizzy was a witch (she'd just watched Kiki's Delivery Service, which influenced her choice). Kai was Bob the Builder, although photos of him are on my friends camera.

Travel Plans

Today Isaac wrote the following list of places he'd like to visit:

1. The South Pole
2. China
3. Washington D.C.
4. Glacier National Park

I'm sure that we'll visit 3 and 4 at some stage in the next few years. And we may even visit China, as Ben has always wanted to take us there (I think all of Ben's stories about his visit to China have influenced Isaac). But the South Pole doesn't strike me as a family vacation destination. I think that this goal will have to be one that he does as an adult. Hey - the kid likes science - perhaps he can do a stint there one day as part of his studies :)

Perspective

I had a few family members comment about the background in my Trip_Down_Memory_Lane post. Just to give a little perspective for the first photo, with me standing on the back verandah in the bikini ... had this photo been taken a few years later, Jan B's house would have been there instead :)

Santa

Lizzy and I were driving to the shops on Saturday, when she suddenly said "Wouldn't it be funny if we had to pay for Christmas?"

"We sort of do" I said. "We buy gifts for one another."

"No. I mean wouldn't it be funny if we had to pay for Santa's gifts?".

Ummm. Yeah. Funny.

A Trip Down Memory Lane

I was looking through some old photos tonight and thought I'd take you on a trip down memory lane.

"What do you get if you wear a yellow jacket?"

"A Bee Sting."

Well technically, it would be a wasp sting, but I had to smile at how far Lizzy's jokes have progressed over the past year. Was it really only a year ago that she made up knock, knock jokes that made no sense?

Just Like Daddy

Kai is a good imitator. He obviously wants to be just like all the older people in our household, but of everyone, Daddy is his idol.

Yesterday, as Ben was getting ready for work, Kai was in the bathroom watching him. He then reached up and picked up Ben's deodorant, took off the lid, lifted up his shirt and dabbed the deodorant on his belly.

Mmmmm. Kai will be smelling fresh all day long - just like Daddy.

Can you spot anything different?

Take a close look at this photo? Yes - they are 3 gorgeous Armstrong's but there is something different..

Any guesses?


Well - I suppose it's a bit hard to tell from the photo but you are looking at 3 Australian citizens :)

Yes. Kai is now an Australian. Sometime in the next 2 months, he & I are going to go on a little vacation to San Francisco to get his Australian passport. Without it, I'm told we won't be allowed into the country.

Reading with Rover

There is a local charity here called Reading with Rover. Their mission is "to inspire children to discover the joy of reading while developing literacy skills and confidence in a safe environment using Reading with Rover Dogs." If you want to read more about it you can look at their webpage at http://readingwithrover.org/

Yesterday, our local second-hand bookshop had a Meet the Author with a children's author. We took the kids along to listen to her read her book "Don't Lick the Dog", which is about how to approach a dog. Afterwards the kids were able to read to two Reading with Rover dogs. Isaac insisted on reading to both dogs and read the book by the featured author. Lizzy was hesitant about reading to start with - but then we found a second-hand book called "Olive My Love". It's a book about a dog called Olive (you might know her from Olive the Other Reindeer) and it just so happened that one of the Reading with Rover dogs was called Olive. This tickled her fancy, so she happily read to Olive. Kai was Kai. He ran all around the bookshop and happily patted the reading dogs. Who cares about authors at this age.

All over it was a fun experience, and I was very impressed with the Reading with Rover program.

What does a bird say?

If you ask this of most people, they would tell you that a bird says "tweet, tweet" or something to that effect. However, in our household, if you ask Kai what a bird says (or if he sees a bird) he says "caw, caw".

I think this might be a good indication to you about how many crows we have around us.

House Extention

Yesterday, Isaac and I had an interesting conversation in the kitchen.

"Mum, are you going to have another baby?"

"No" Pause. "Do you think we need 4 kids instead of 3?"

"Yes."

"But Isaac, we don't have room for another baby".

"We could get a house extention."

"And where would this house extention go?"

"We could get a 3rd floor. Nathaniel & Jonathan have a 3rd floor."

Yes I suppose there is a solution for anything. However, I think we'll skip this one.

Dare Devil

I think I have a little dare devil on my hands.

For a while now, Kai's been trying to climb up on my small (but tall) round footstool. Yesterday he suceeded. He then stood on the footstool, huge grin on his face and arms out wide.

The other thing he loves to do is stand on our bed and do a free fall forward onto the matress. Usually he'll stand up with his feet under my legs and then throw himself forward, keeping his body straight. It's worth lots of giggles.

Ben & I have been debating whether our first broken bone will come from Lizzy or Kai.

Growing Up

It's a bitter sweet day when you are folding your washing and suddenly realise that you have sorted one of your sons shirts in with one of your husbands. He's getting bigger every day.

Math Helper

Lizzy came home with a worksheet which she completed during math time. It was all about greater, between and less. I looked at it, rolled my eyes and asked "Was that easy, hard or just right?"

"It was easy, Mummy. But I finished first and then I got to help other kids in the class."
"Did anyone else help?"
"Just Mrs Lenderman."

The next day she bought home another. This time I simply asked whether she helped anyone in her class. The answer was yes.

I do hope she's going to get something a little more challenging than helping others with their math.

Daddy Preference

It has started. Kai is going through his daddy preference stage. I knew it would happen sooner or later, as all my kids have done it. I'm still good for food, but he'd much rather Ben do everything else for him.

The cutest one is each night after dinner. Kai gets down off his chair and I tell him it's time for a bath. He walks over to Ben and pulls on Ben's leg. He often will head off towards the bath but if Ben doesn't get up straight away he goes back and pulls on his leg again. The funniest thing is that once he's in the bath, it's OK for Ben to leave. I wonder for how long though. If Isaac is any indication the amount of daddy preference is only going to grow over the next month or two.

Bob

Kai has a new love in his life. It is Bob the Builder - otherwise known as Ba Ba Baa. However, there is an episode where Pilchard (the cat) gets stuck in a tree over a pond. Without fail, Kai will sob because Pilchard is in trouble. Unless Ben & I are sitting down holding him, we no longer let him watch Pets in a Pickle. It's just too upsetting.

I've got to think it's because he loves our cat so much (much to Cleo's dismay).

Family History

While Kai is napping, I'm spending my time on a volunteer family history project called "FreeReg". I am helping transcribe historical parish registers, and right now I am transcribing records from the 1700's in Rochester, Kent, England.

I wish my ancestors died in Rochester. The vicar is a rare man for his times, and he records lots of interesting information on his parishioners. I know who was an Alderman (obviously you had to be pretty old to be an alderman because quite a few of them are dying), I know who committed suicide, who was accidently killed, and I even know the ship on which someone captained. I know who died in the workhouse, and who had a higher social status, as they are recorded as Mr or Mrs. Even better, every entry has whether they lived in Rochester or somewhere else. This is a historical gem field. Most registers at this time usually only had a name and date - if you are really unlucky a widowed woman is recorded as Widow Smith.

I am enjoying this project, despite the fact that Ben laughs and tells me he couldn't think of anything more boring.

Ouch!

Ben commented that my blog makes it seem like we lead an idealic life with a happy family, which has nothing go wrong. Well just to proove a point, I'm letting you know that I slammed my finger in the car door on Wednesday. Oh how it hurt! I actually looked at it and my first thought was "I think I've broken it" thanks to the indent the door left. Luckily it wasn't but now I have a pinky which is slowly turning purple.

Ben was on his way home from New Zealand, so I was so thankful that I have friends whom I can call and say "I need to go to ER. Can I drop my kids over at your place?" And I was especially thankful that Kai has been to Kristina's house often enough that he didn't scream when I left - which is what he does at church nursery each week.

For Mum...

While Mum was visiting, she gave me the pattern for her sleeping sacks. I didn't feel up to the challenge of making one with a zipper, but I was willing to try one that could be pulled over the head. When she left, I'd sewn the seams but not put on the ribbing. I finally finished the bag today.

I'm not a sempstress. Whilst I feel great that I managed to do this, it's not something I want to do again any time soon. Mum - you are amazing.

For Dad...

Dad and Mum did some awesome work in our backyard while they were visiting. They laid a path, leveled off the soil and planted grass seeds. Just before they left, the grass was beginning to sprout. It seemed like it was growing before our eyes, as each time we looked out there was more grass.

Dad - I thought you'd like to see it now..

Lefty

It looks like we might have a lefty. Ben & I have suspected for a while that Kai was showing a preference for his left hand. He looked much more comfortable holding his spoon in his left hand and would often reach out with his left hand. However, he would also use his right hand.

However, today Kai was was struggling to put the straw into a juice box using his right hand. After a little bit, he swapped hands and instantly got the straw through the tiny hole with his left hand.

Ben looked at me and said "Perhaps we should start handing him everything to his left hand - I heard that's one of the biggest mistakes right-handed parents do to their left handed kids".

I had to agree.